217: You Were Born to Matter and Become Passion Struck with John R. Miles
In a world where time and energy are valuable commodities, finding your true passion can be a transformative experience. It's a journey that leads to a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment, ultimately contributing to your overall happiness. In this episode, we dive into a powerful conversation with John R. Miles, an expert on intentional behavior change, leadership, and personal mastery. John is the author of the book "Passion Struck," where he shares 12 powerful principles to unlock your purpose and ignite your most intentional life. Join us as we explore the nitty-gritty of discovering and living your passion every single day.
We start the conversation by asking John what happiness means to him. He describes it as a state of mind where he wakes up energized, excited about what the day has in store. For John, living a life that he loves and aligning his actions with his passions leads to a sense of happiness and contentment.
We delve deeper into John's daily routine, asking how he stays aligned with his passion every morning. John shares that he practices gratitude both at night and in the morning. Starting his day with a mindful walk, he immerses himself in the tranquility of nature, setting intentions and expressing gratitude. This practice grounds him and sets the tone for a day filled with excellence, enthusiasm, hope, and love.
We explore John's personal journey of finding fulfillment. John explains that he had accomplished much in his career but realized he was on a treadmill, always chasing the next achievement. The turning point was a period of burnout, severe depression, and apathy. Seeking guidance from a psychologist and career coach, John discovered the importance of crafting a well-rounded life with multiple areas of focus. This balance included physical health, mental health, spiritual health, emotional health, and relationship health. By finding harmony in these areas, John found true contentment and happiness.
John introduces the concept of "human mosquitoes" – the negative influences that derail our hopes and aspirations. He categorizes them into three types: "blood suckers," boundary destroyers; "invisible suffocators," pessimists; and "PITAs" (Pain in the Ass), selfish individuals. John advises setting boundaries and being consistent in their application. Recognizing these negative influences allows individuals to make informed decisions about their presence in their lives.
John emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and utilizing one's unique strengths. He advises focusing on tasks and activities that bring joy and working on improving weaknesses without overshadowing strengths. John urges embracing the journey and learning from mistakes. By giving ourselves grace and acknowledging our significance, we can make a meaningful impact on the world.
Discovering your passion is a deeply personal and transformative experience. It requires intentional mindset shifts, behavior changes, and deliberate actions. John R. Miles, in his book "Passion Struck," provides a roadmap to unlock your purpose and ignite your most intentional life. By practicing gratitude, setting boundaries, and finding alignment with your passions, you can create a life that brings you true happiness and fulfillment.
Don't forget to grab a copy of John's book, "Passion Struck," and embark on your own journey of self-discovery and intentional living. Remember, your happiness and passion are within reach.
In the episode, we get into:
[2:23] What happiness means to John
[5:03] Changing your life from feeling unfulfilled to filled with passion
[8:59] How parts of your life start to fall away when you do the inner work
[10:30] Three types of human mosquitoes
[15:24] What to do when you realize people in your life might be these mosquitoes
[18:12] Tips for crafting your life
[22:55] Why John write this book
[25:36] What Johns wants readers to feel after reading his book
[27:00] How to create a little more happiness in your day, every day, starting today
About John R. Miles
John R. Miles is a dynamic speaker, author, and the host of the Passion Struck podcast, dedicated to sharing stories, insights, and lessons from a life spent in helping others unlock their potential. His journey is marked by a rich tapestry of experiences, ranging from the high-stakes world of Fortune 50 leadership to the deeply personal voyage of self-discovery. John's life stands as a testament to the power of resilience, the elegance of reinvention, and the critical importance of living with intention.
Throughout every chapter of his life, John has discovered one enduring truth: true strength is found when we listen to the subtle whispers of our hearts and pursue our passions with boldness. This realization is the cornerstone of his mission – to guide and inspire others on their journey to becoming Passion Struck.
John invites everyone to join the Passion Struck® community, a vibrant collective of dreamers and achievers. In this space, members come together to celebrate the journey of transformative growth. This community is a place where the courage to chase one's dreams, the strength to face fears, and the joy of building a passionately lived life are not just encouraged but celebrated.
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